VIVIANE DALLES

Gallery: Teenage motherhood, France

TEENAGE MOTHERHOOD, France  

[2014-2015] 

In France in 2014, five thousand juvenile mothers* (aged 14 to 18) who may not have wanted to be pregnant, did choose to keep their babies – a difficult and unusual choice in modern western societies. They dropped out of school to build a new life, caught between the turmoil of their teenage years and the happiness of motherhood. Many underage mothers are in the North of France. The nickname of “Pram Town” is often heard for towns such as Fourmies with a population of only 13 000. The region was once prosperous, but this geographically isolated area has been hard hit by unemployment, starting in the 1960s when industry closed down and then affecting small businesses. Teenagers here cannot see much of a future for themselves. For the underage mothers, a baby can offer a life and a future. Some are single mothers, some are with the father, and there are no regrets. Under French law, the young mother is entitled to keep the child, even if the father or her family do not wish her to. Early in pregnancy there is often conflict between the girl and her parents whose reaction is a combination of incredulousness and concern. In a society where the average age for a mother having her first child is 30, the attitude of outside onlookers is often one of disapproval. I met four such mothers – Amelie, Laurine, Stacy and Melissa – each with a different story to tell, and all determined to be good mothers, good teenage mothers. 

* 2014 statistics, French National Institute for Youth & Community Education (INJEP), Paris 

 

  • In my mind I’m still a teenager, but in my body I’m a mother-to-be. Amélie, 15With every prenatal ultrasound, Amélie has become more conscious of being a mother. Fourmies, France.
  • Amélie and Xavier have gone to five clothing stores today, and have spent only 3 euros, for one pair of slippers. Xavier has no income and Amélie has only basic income support, so they have to be careful. Charleville-Mézières, France.
  • Amélie sitting on the steps outside the apartment, rolling a cigarette. In January 2015, Amélie and Xavier decided to live on their own and found an apartment in Charleville-Mézières, France.
  • Xavier has six brothers and sisters. Here he is visiting his brother David (20, with daughter Leyna) and sister-in-law Sarah (18) who is feeding their three-month-old son Aaron. Another brother, Xavier, is rolling a cigarette. Maubert-Fontaine, France.
  • Amélie and Xavier in the yard at his parents’ home in Maubert-Fontaine. They are in love, carefree and looking forward to having the baby.
  • There is not much for young people to do in the village of Rumigny (370 inhabitants). Xavier and Amélie spend most of their time visiting their friends Mickael (18) and Mattéo (11) and playing poker.
  • Coming back from the cut-price supermarket with friends, Michel and Anaïs, and their daughter. Michel has registered with temp agencies but has not been offered any work. Anaïs is training to work in a childcare center. Rocroi, France.
  • Do you want to practice ? says Amélie’s sister-in-law Sarah, 18 with baby Aaron. It was the first time Amélie had ever fed a baby. Maubert-Fontaine, France.
  • A month before giving birth, Amélie and Xavier moved back to Rumigny because Amélie wanted to be with her mother.
  • Amélie’s baby is in a breech position so she will need a caesarian section. The last few hours seem interminable, worrying about the operation and the baby. Fourmies, France.
  • Ilyna was born on May 18, 2015. Amélie’s mother, Isabelle, and her 12-year-old sister Coralie have come to visit. Fourmies, France.
  • The caesarian section went smoothly. Xavier stayed with her. Her mother and sister have come to visit. Fourmies, France.
  • I’m afraid I won’t be a good father. I’m still only a kid. Xavier Xavier was uneasy about having a baby. Now he is learning to look after his daughter while staying with Amélie’s mother. Rumigny, France.
  • After leaving hospital, Amélie and Xavier went to live with her mother while they get used to their new life. RumignyI’m still only a kid.
  • Laurine is an only child and lives with her father in the town of Fourmies. Her mother abandoned her at the age of two. She was 14 weeks pregnant by the time she realized it. It was too late to terminate the pregnancy and she wanted to keep the baby and not give him up for adoption. She was supported by her father throughout the pregnancy, and also by her godmother who went with her to all the appointments at the maternity clinic. The father of the child, her boyfriend at the time, refused to acknowledge paternity. She and her son Thiméo now live with her father in a public housing apartment in FourmiesI’m still only a kid.Laurine is about to turn 18 and would like to complete her schooling to get her CAP certificate qualifying for employment in sales. She would also like to get a driving license and find an apartment for herself and her son.Thiméo was born on September 22, 2014. Laurine and her son live with her father in a public housing apartment in Fourmies.
  • Laurine and her son live with her father in a public housing apartment in Fourmies, France.
  • Laurine’s father, Michael, is 40 and has been unemployed for nearly two years. When he discovered his daughter was pregnant, it was initially hard to accept, but he has done his best to support her. Fourmies, France.
  • Thiméo looking at a picture of himself that Laurine has just taken on her phone. She is proud to be a young mother and often posts photos of her son on social media. Fourmies, France.
  • Laurine back home with her father, changing the baby on the table in the living room. She stopped school late in the pregnancy and would now like to resume her studies and get a qualification for a sales job. Fourmies, France.
  • Laurine after an appointment at the Maternal & Child Care Center where she sees a social worker and a doctor who give her advice and reassurance. Fourmies, France.
  • My son is the most wonderful thing that has ever happened to me. Stacy was 16 and had been with her boyfriend for two years when she fell pregnant. She is against abortion so decided to keep the baby. Her boyfriend acknowledged paternity, but they have now broken up. Stacy is registered as a single mother and lives in Hellemmes with her son Vicenzo, in an apartment at the Dahlia Center for mothers and children run by the local health, social and education center (EPDSAE) and where the team provides support for young mothers after they have left hospital, reassuring them and developing a positive image of motherhood, in a multidisciplinary approach with specialists, e.g. in education and psychology. Stacy would like to do a training program and find work as a home help, but is worried about being separated from her son. Stacy knows it is difficult to be a single mother, but would never want to go back to her teenage life.
  • Vicenzo clings to his mother, Stacy, and never wants to let her go, even for a few minutes. Hellemmes, France.
  • At the Dahlia center, Stacy and Vicenzo with the educational counselor who provides regular support. Here Stacy talks to the social workers who give her advice and reassurance, helping her come to terms with motherhood. Hellemmes, France.
  • Vicenzo, 17 months, had a bad night. Stacy is exhausted and cannot cope with his tantrums. Hellemmes, France.
  • At the Dahlia center, Stacy and Vicenzo during a session with a therapist (left) and a psychologist (right) working on the body and the mind, on the relationship between mental processes and physical activity. Hellemmes, France.
  • When I’m with him in the street, I can feel people looking at me. They don’t know my story, so why should they judge me? Stacy, Hellemmes, France.
  • Stacy leaves Vicenzo at the crèche three days a week. The education and parental support service is managed by the local health, social and education center (EPDSAE). Hellemmes, France.
  • Vicenzo has a temperature, and Stacy had to wait three hours to see the doctor. 8 pm, on her way back home, she is worried and has called her mother. Hellemmes, France.
  • Once I had my two children, I realized I had missed out on my teenage years. MélissaMélissa wanted to be a mother when she was only 14; so when she fell in love with Steven it seemed the natural thing to do. She was pregnant at 15, but terminated the pregnancy, then again at 17, and again to Steven. They both decided to keep the child, a little boy named Lohann. Two years later they had a daughter, Leyna. Mélissa is now 22 and has broken up with Steven, but he still looks after his two children. Mélissa lives in a public housing apartment with her children, now 4 and 2. She wants to work as a prison guard and will start training in September 2015. In the meantime, she is trying to find a job in Fourmies.Mélissa has no regrets about having her children, but with hindsight thinks she was too young to be a mother. “I lost my teenage years; I couldn’t do anything, but now I’m making up for it.”Now, after a failed romance, she has a tattoo: No Love. Fourmies.
  • Mélissa is a single mother living with her two children. She has tried to find a job in Fourmies but unemployment here is 37%.
  • Melissa comes to pick up her son Lohann who is in the second year of kindergarten, with her daughter Leyna. Fourmies, France.
  • Mélissa at home with her children and a girlfriend, 14-year-old Tansy who has come to spend the evening with her. Fourmies, France.
  • Steven is the father of Lohann and Leyna. He and Mélissa have broken up, but he sees his children regularly and has them every second weekend. Fourmies, France.
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